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I am OUT of the ZADR club. I am sick of opening my inbox to see someone covered with bruises and blood and seeing it called "romance."

What they're plastering all over this site is the farthest thing from romance there is. That's the sick, fucked up masocistic mentality I'm trying to get away from.

Beating the shit out of someone = love. Uh, yeah. Yeah sure. Try telling that to someone in a Battered Wife's Shelter. Or someone whose father put them in the Emergency Room for breaking curfew. Or an abused child why don't ya.

I wouldn't wish that fate on anyone, but then again I don't have to. A group messed up enough to believe AND PROMOTE the idea a punch in the face says "I love you" is headed for a very interesting love life anyway.

What's less obvious is how they tell you they're going to do something, then change their minds all of a sudden and look at you all innocent and say it's not their fault.

No, of course not, ZADR. NOTHING ever IS your fault, is it.

Every single wife-beater out there says the same thing. "It's not my fault."

At least you talk like them too.